Crucial Questions for Twenty Somethings

Wednesday, March 25, 2009 7:32 - By The David

(The following is a guest post from Vince at Scordo.com - click here to subscribe to his feed) 

 

If you’re a Twenty-something consider yourself very lucky.

You’re probably healthy, super educated (only about 26 percent of Americans have a bachelor’s degree), full of energy, have a full set of teeth, and have very few, real-world commitments.

You’ve probably just started to think about how to go about “living” in the world, but have continued with the same day-to-day / task oriented existence that you’ve operated under since kindergarten, as opposed to an existence  focused on goal setting and planning.

If, however, you are that rare twenty-something who can plan ahead and set specific goals, you may have already started to figure out how you can truly enjoy a high quality of life over the long term.

What I’m advocating is that twenty-somethings begin setting life goals as quickly as possible so they can optimize living life, and avoid the nasty parts associated with being an average American consumer (namely, materialism, debt, living in the moment, etc…).

The three primary goals to focus on are simple and they include money, happiness, and family, but the associated questions that come with setting the goals are hard to answer.

However, the quicker you arrive at goal setting via answering the questions below the better equipped you’ll be at figuring out how to start running your life!

I’m not going to answer the questions for you, but instead pose the right questions so you can begin figuring out how to answer, and in turn, begin setting the right direction in your life!  Good luck!

 

Money Goals

What do you want money to do for you?

Do you want to earn money so you can purchase stuff (such as a car, flat screen TV, clothes, etc…), or do you want to earn money so you can make money work for you (in the form of an investment such as the purchase of stock or a CD)?

Would you feel better about saving 10 percent of your salary or 70 percent?  Do you see money as a means of security or as a vehicle to help you acquire things? Do you want to earn more to secure debt?

How do you want to earn your money; that is, by working for someone else or by starting your own company?  Do you get excited when you think or talk about money or does money make you feel uneasy?

 

Happiness Goals

What makes you happy each and every day?

Do you like to make things, sell things, talk about things, research things, teach other people about things, etc…? Can you see yourself doing the same type of job every day or do you require new challenges?

Do you crave being around people so you can get things done or are you most happy as an introvert? Can you point to a few, consistent, things in your life that have made you happy?

Is your personality consistent or does it change with the weather?  Do your family members all feel happy about the same sort of things?

 

Family Goals

How important are your father and mother to you?  How important are your brothers and sisters to you?  Do you enjoy spending time with your family or did your family life end when you moved away from home at the age of 18?

Do you desire to start a family and produce children?  Do you require constant companionship?  Do you crave isolation so you can work, read, play video games, play music, etc.?

 

 

About the author: When Vince isn’t asking questions, he is the author of Scordo.com, a blog focusing on practical life tips, saving money, how-to’s, and the occasional recipe. He created the site to share his life experiences with managing money, a home, and a life. To read more of his posts, click here to subscribe to his blog.

 

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  • samanthapeppercorn
    This is a great post
  • I'm so love this blog, already bookmarked it! Thanks.
  • I wanna find more info about this, anybody could?
  • Wow, those questions really do give you something to think about, especially as a twenty-something. Now I just need to discover my answers...
  • Ha ha. At least we already know the questions, so we can keep an eye out for the answers.

    These are all things I wish I had on my mind when I was still in college.
  • Fantastic questions. I've thought about a lot of them before (as a 22 year old), but I've never had them all assembled into one big area before. So thanks for doing that.
  • I'm glad you liked it. I didn't think about these things for a long time. I wish I had sooner - it's much easier to make a big impact financially by starting just a few years sooner.
  • SDman
    Nice post - these are all great things to think about when it comes to being young and managing money.
  • I'm glad you liked it!

    It's nice to have someone else point out things you may not have thought about. After all, it's hard to know what you should do when you're young and haven't really dealt with money before.
  • This was a nice change from the usual "for 20-somethings" post. Personally, I don't set goals, I make plans. Semantics perhaps, but it's what works for me. Something every young adult needs to do is figure out where their going and how to get there. So many people just go wherever they end up instead of where they want to be.
  • I think there is a difference between goals and plans. A goal is somewhere you want to be, but a plan assumes that you have a road map about how to get there.

    Having a goal of being a millionaire isn't much good on it's own, right?

    I agree that people just go wherever without a sense of direction. To be honest, I've wasted the best years of my life financially. I say best, because of the power of compound interest. I should have been investing, not racking up debt.
  • I'm no expert by any means, but it feels good when you have a friend ask you for financial advice. I think by having goals and being focused financially does get you noticed. I was happy to help a friend out just last week in setting up an IRA.

    I suppose I should let him know to read pf blogs to further extend his resources. :)

    Stupidly Yours,

    Matt
  • You don't have to be an expert to know the right thing to do. That's great that you can help out your friends.

    How do you bring up money with your friends? I know I shouldn't be, but I feel embarassed to bring up money with money of my friends, even though I may have a few ideas that could help them. I have only talked about money with one of my friends - he's been putting money in an IRA since he turned 18.

    Oh, and we should all be as stupid as you :) I'll be opening an IRA in the next week or two.
  • That was a really well written and inspiring post. I'm not just saying that because I'm a 20 something that set his goals as a teen and wants to make his money work for him someday.
  • I'm glad you enjoyed it! Good for you for setting your goals so early.

    I just set my goals recently, but better late than never, right? I feel like I've finally seen the light and am on the right path.

    I'm trying to make my money work for me...better to work smarter rather than harder, right? Also, if you have money, every market downturn is an opportunity waiting to happen.
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