10 Lies that got you (and keep you) in credit card debt

Monday, April 13, 2009 14:53 - By The David

I saw a great list that I had to re-post here. It’s a list of 10 lies that got you (and keep you) in credit card debt, originally posted at Dough Roller.

It may be a month old, but it’s just as relevant as ever. After all, I’m still battling my credit card demons.

So how does their list of lies compare with the lies I’ve told myself? Let’s take a look. I’ll run down their list, then add in a few of mine.

 

1. It’s an emergency

Even if we have an emergency fund, we may not really be using it for emergencies. If life or liberty isn’t at stake, it’s not an emergency.

This is something I’m about to fall for. I’m going to use my emergency fund to pay for some home repairs. While not an emergency, I still consider it urgent, as I could end up with long-term drainage problems if I don’t do something soon.

 

2. We deserve it

I think we’ve all used this to justify some unnecessary purchases before. We worked hard. We had a stressful week. I’ve been doing good. There is never any shortage of excuses.

However, doing things because you “deserve” them only sets you back an equal amount. If you’re not careful, you’ll end up with a constant stream of celebrations, but no progress to back it up.

 

3. It’s a bargain

When you find deals, the question should still be “do I need this?”, not “how much am I saving?”

Buying something you don’t need is never a bargain, regardless of how much money you’re saving.

 

4. It’s not that much money

Small charges add up. It’s easy to dismiss $5 or even $20 there because it doesn’t seem so bad on its own. But if you’re already carrying debt, it’s even more expensive than you think.

And even though it’s a bit of a cliche, if you can cut back on $20 a week, it adds up to more than $1000 a year.

 

5. The payment is small

When making big purchases, you should consider the total cost (and interest), not just the minimum or suggested payments that you’re given.

A small example is buying a big-screen TV. You can go to any store, and they’ll gladly point out how it can be yours for only XX dollars per month.

Or on a bigger scale, you can shop for houses, and banks will tell you that you can afford to pay XXXX a month on your mortgage.

But it’s never that easy.

Their plans almost always never include interest, or any of the details. What happens after the initial grace period wears off? What about finance charges? Property taxes? Etc….

The devil is in the details.

 

6. The card rewards make it worth it

Reward cards can be a good deal – if you pay off your balance every month. But if you keep a less-than-ideal card and carry debt just for the sake of those “free” rewards, you’re really getting hosed.

 

7. 0% Introductory purchases

It’s a good deal while it lasts, but the whole point is to let you build up a big balance before the introductory rate turns into a high interest rate that you can never get out of. Don’t fall for it!

 

8. 0% Introductory balance transfers

Again, these can be a great deal. I’m using a few to save at least hundreds, possibly thousands now.

But if I don’t pay off the cards before the intro period wears off, I’ll end up getting burned. It’s a good deal, you just have to make sure you don’t fall for their trap.

 

9. It’s for my business

Credit cards can be a valuable tool for businesses, just like consumers. However, you don’t want to say “it’s for the business” as your excuse to spend whatever you want. You have to show restraint, just like you would in your personal life.

 

10. I’ll pay it off after graduation

Ah, I’ve said this before! Sure, build up debt in college. You’ll have a real job after you get out.

But a funny thing happens… it takes longer than you think to find a job. Or you can’t find one that pays what you hoped. Or even if you do, your spending goes up anyway.

You should judge your spending on what’s happening now. Now what you hope or expect to happen in the future.

 

…and now for a few I’ve learned from my own experience.

11. I’ll start paying down my debt… next month

It’s easy to make the decision to change, but the hard part is following through. If you know you have a problem and need to stop, do it NOW! Don’t put it off until next month, or it will keep getting put off.

 

12. Things will be different once I make more

You assume that as you make more, you’ll have less problems with money. In reality, the opposite normally happens.

You can’t just assume that once you get a raise, you’ll start using more of it to pay down debt. You have to have a plan ready, as well as the intentions to actually do it.

 

13. But this time is different!

After you’ve decided to get out of debt, you’ll inevitably face some hurdles. Hurdles that make you want to throw caution to the wind, at least one more time.

Maybe some unexpected crisis has come up. Or there is are concert tickets, gifts, or a dress you just have to get. Normally you wouldn’t indulge, but this time is different!

You tell yourself that after this one last purchase, you won’t make any more with your credit. But it always happens again.

Debt is a slippery slope. Try to quit it cold turkey if you can.

 

I hope you enjoyed their original ten lies, and my additional three. Hopefully I’ll be putting them all behind me soon!

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  • One thing that keeps u in debt is ure carelessness and you taking pride :) Simplicity and being humble is the best way to live
  • Interesting article. Thanks for sharing.
  • very good post. so true.
  • Ouch..you hit me there.."we deserve it", "it's a bargain" and "it's not that much money"...well I learn the hard way until I saw my bill for the last couple of months. Small purchases pile up and it's really a lie sometimes that I'm going to pay it in full when the bill arrives. :D
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    3) I will also write on my white board exactly what I spent my money on. So this way, when I am looking at it, i will say gee, I really didnt ned that kit kat bar, or those cigarettes, and I will essentially be ashamed for spending money that I didn;t need to, because it will be staring me in my face every day.

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  • haha.. identify with all these excuses so much. thanks for holding the mirror.. :)
  • These phrases are the mantra of every consumer in the US and the UK for the last ten years. It's why the economy tipped over! But I think they've become obselete as people realise how painful it is to live like that in the long run.

    I think sayings like 'A penny saved is a penny earned' are coming back in. Hopefully they are anyway!

    Keep posting david!
  • Just found the blog and sad that is seems to of died.
  • I agree with @oneadvice.

    Hope you're okay David, even if you've not found time to blog anymore...
  • What happened to this blog?
    It hasn't updated in agesssss and I was really enjoying reading it!
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  • I've been had on the rewards card. At one time I was using my card for EVERYTHING just to get the cash back. Problem was I stopped paying it off at the end of every month. It was soon maxed out. Ouch.
  • R. Layton
    I guess my problem sort of equates to a long-term drainage problem. I am probably going to use emergency funds to fix a leaking roof. It isn't the main house, it is a bonus room but I don't see a way around doing it now. June is the rainiest month of the year and I kind of feel like it needs to be done now. I don't spend emergency funds on frivolous things and I will try to do the inside work, taking down a suspended ceiling and replacing insulation, myself. Hopefully that will get rid of the increasingly moldy smell in that room.
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  • Doctor_S
    Ahh #10 got me real good about 5 years ago. I opened up 2 credit cards with 0% interest and ran up a nice amount of debt during my last fling in college. It took me 3 years after college and a few more balance transfers to pay off nearly 5k. If I was blogging back then I would have knew better, but alas, I was blind to the consequences. Oh the lies!
  • Wow.... I know some of these points VERY well.
    Credit card debt is easy to get into and hard to get out of - FACT. With high interest rates and charges added it is never easy to clear your credit card debt!

    A very slippery slope indeed.
  • Elvis Costello sings in one of his songs: "We believe the lies that we don't see." How true! Thanks for making them more visible, and now recognizable as lies.

    To counteract the lies, all we need to do is ask questions...

    do I need it?
    can I live without it?
    are their alternatives?

    ...and so on. The frugal and wise money managers among us should be good at asking questions like these. It makes sense to me. How else are we to do battle with the constant barrage of advertising designed to make us dissatisfied with our lives?

    Clair
  • tom
    Excellent points.
    12. Things will be different once I make more
    This point is usually a reality check for some once they dug up a hole for themselves and can't seem to get a hold on it.

    1. It’s an emergency
    I think this is probably the dumbest thing ever to do. I mean say you use your CC for an emergency, so now you got principal and interest to pay back, and it's not like you have the money right away to pay it back, so you are just hurting yourself and carrying the debt.
  • Another one is "everyone does it". If they believe what they are doing is is normal, they'll do anything. (Exactly what got us into the credit crisis, of course...)
  • Ken
    These are so on target and used by thousands in our society. They are a slppery slope you said it right.
  • Many of these were favorite expressions of my ex-wife . . . anything to rationalize, justify, and self-deceive . . .
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